A fact: Har Ek Friend Jaroori Hota Hai...

Whether it Mischievous friend, Intelligent friend, Childish friend, Happy go lucky friend, Emotional friend, Practical friend, Trustworthy friend kucch bhi kaho yaar…har ek friend jaroori hota hai! Everyday browsing through the channels I see this advertisement (the airtel commercial); so just gave it a thought.

EXPERIENCE

You must have marvelled why would a mischievous friend be jaroori???

Visualize the normal breaktime classroom scene girls gossiping, some eating their own while some hogging on others! The live orchestra - the boys sitting on the last benches… making songs on their not- so favourite teachers… with benches banging in the background.

Lets add some spice... the vilian enters the scene… clicking her sandals through that corridor during the break! Knock Knock !... she enters the class! Then the real drama begins, the teacher scolding and the student justifying. These boys ultimately had to pay the piper.

How can this experience be jaroori???

Well, when you are a friend of one of those Mischievous boys ….you pity their misfortune !                       

 LESSON:  'Fortune doesn't favour such type of bravery'

But Sachhi yaaaar…. Mischeivous friend ke sath mazaa jaroor aata hai! :D

An encounter with an EMOTIONAL type of friend:

Tired of the daily routine...just decided to have a fun...well...Timepss!

Together with a friend of mine, got hold with one of the most Reactive friend. Teased her, made fun of her and finally got a 'Unexpected' reaction. Eyes moist and voice choking...she was about to cry. Well...I concluded something.

There's something peculiar about Human Nature 'kitna bhi accha dost ho, prank succesful hone par hasi jaroor aati hai.

TEACHING

You must have already thought...An intelligent friend can teach you...and how you can carelessly avoid going to school because there is someone who would teach you all...I need not mention these type of friends are jarrori because we already know about it, they are like gems.

Having a practical and happy go lucky friend, changes your... perception towards life, LIFE IS THE WAY YOU VIEW IT.

LETS US EXPLORE OUR MIND

I discovered that I could do something so meticulous well...I mean I could draw well, only when my childhood friend was interested in it. I just accompanied her to pass out my time.

Laughing your diaphragms out indiffernt to the people around you, fighting on silly issues, singing the cute old nursery rhymes, dancing around merrily- I never knew I could enjoy till I was lucky enough to have a 'Childish Friend'.

The list is endless so are the types of friends, so go on Making Friends and experience the fun with these never ending types of  friends...

                                                                                                                                                              In a way learn,
                                                                                                                                                          Visheshika Baheti

 Afterall,                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            
 Its said that you must 'Count your age by freinds, not years.'

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    

An appeal: Ban Moods

I am all dressed up for the party. The telephone rings, my friend tells me to leave (for the party) but I reply, 'NO' and give a silly excuse. Actually I was not in a mood to party. I am in a bad mood phase. I don't feel like eating. Mom is worried about my health! I know she is right but still I am not in a mood. I have the talent of writing but don't write often because I get carried away with my moods. I decide to join the reading club but before joining, I change my decision because at that point of time I was not in a mood.

You lose the fun -> Responsible -> SELFISH MOOD. Your health gets affected -> Reason -> IGNORANT MOOD. Your talent remains unpolished -> Cause -> LAZY MOOD. Your are not able to do something extra -> Due to -> LAID BACK MOOD

These Moods which are meant to be yours unknowingly, affect the people around you. We take hasty decisions just following are unconscious demands(moods) but leaving our beloved ones in distress.  Like not eating our food - leaving mom hyper tensed, giving excuse for not coming to the party - upsetting your friend!

Its not others but it's YOU, who is losing out the most. While YOU were wasting your time being moody the others were working, achieving and enjoying every minute of their life!

Remember in this world not all are moody and moods will not be a hurdle for them. So, it is important that you don't get swayed away by these shortcomings. You just need effort, determination and force from your part to overcome these mood swings and soon you will rule over them.

                                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                                        Its me,

                                                                                                                                  Visheshika Baheti

                                                                                                                       (Inspiration Mrs. Madhu Baheti)    

Never forget, where there's a will there's a way.